What do I do here..what is wrong woth him?

What kind of abuser is this? Do you really have to ask that question? It sounds like you are in a very abusive relationship and you can't get rid of his toxin; he has to recognize that about him self and do something about it. You are the only one who can take care of yourself by either getting some counseling with or without him. The only real way of getting rid of this toxin is to make a plan to leave and follow through. And don't make idle threats. If you leave check in to a battered woman's shelter for your own protection. If you have minor children, please don't leave them behind. Consult with an attorney. Do anything to get as far a way from him as possible. You are not doing yourself any good by staying and putting up with his cruel behavior towards you.